When a close friend ask my opinion about the thought of flirtation being both a skill and an art with a spice of timing, I've tried to gather my deepest thoughts to give my views in a manner that it wouldn't break the shell that encloses human understanding. :D So here it is...
“Flirting
is both a skill and an art with a spice of timing”
Flirting is a human nature;
we can't resist it.
A wink, a little shoulder
gripping, a curious smile, “flirting” is commonly considered a way for people
to show an interest in each other without coming out and saying it. Flirting
can sometimes come naturally in person who is attracted to someone. Evidently,
flirting is indeed both a skill and an art for it shows an ability of a person
to do it in a creative way of showing fascination and attractiveness to
someone. Everybody flirts. Life is nugatory without flirting. By flirting, we
mean gleaming our internal light through our words and deeds in such a way that
people are attracted to us irresistibly. It is our innate impulse and an
essential facet of human communication.
Accordingly, a person do flirt
when we want to show someone affection. We flirt when we want attention. We
flirt because flirting lays the foundation to any relationship. But flirting
techniques differentiate just as people’s personalities differentiate and
successfully form a relationship depending on the technique (and what kind of
person you are trying to flirt with). There are those who flirt with crude
pick-up lines, there are those who flirt with nice deeds, and there are those
who flirt from afar.
Furthermore, psychological
studies shows that the art of flirting, in all of its continuation of
complexity has always had a tremendously powerful impact on every single aspect
of human soul which incessantly craves for attention and, ultimately, a never
ending recognition from the opposite sex. We, as human beings, are constantly
involved in a perpetual concept of soul-searching and ego boosting and what
better way to reassure ourselves than to display tiny little pieces of our
charisma through flirt.
Hence, flirting is indeed
both a skill and an art with a spice of timing – the timing of when to do it, and
the skill and art on how to express it.
